How to Stir the Emotions Withย Your Speech
When you give a speech, where does your energy originate?
Your head, or your heart?
Think about the greatest speeches youโve ever heard. Perhapsย it was JFKโs inaugural address. Maybe it was Dr. Kingโs “I Have a Dream.” It may have been a business presenter likeย Steve Jobs introducingย ‘1000 Songs in Your Pocket.’
Speech Lesson From a Rock Star
Each of these speeches have one commonality โ they were delivered with passion.
I recentlyย heard a talk on YouTube that helped me better understand this. The source was an unlikely personย –ย James Hetfield, lead singer for the rock band Metallica. Discussing one of his groupโs albums, he said…
โWhenever you write songs for a new album, you take your heart and put it into a CD. You canโt go wrong when you write that way. I get a little worried when we think too much: too much here [the head], not enough here [the heart]. We start thinking, โWe have to write a masterpiece. Why did our songs work in the past? Thinking so much of why things were the way they were.โ We need to forget that and write what feels right today.โ
The Rest of Your Speech Means Nothing Without This
Are you writing and speaking about subjects that impact you today? So much of our time is spent worrying about our all other parts of our speech that we overlook this important question.
Gestures, speech structure, and vocal variety mean nothing if you donโt have a deep-seated feeling for your subject. Everything else can be improved with practice; enthusiasm and passion canโt be. If you donโt care, the audience will know. Why take theirย valuable time if you donโt have a strong feeling for your subject?
The Lesson of Lost Impact
I learned this lesson after competing in a high-level speechย competition in 2008. My speech was an update of oneย I had presented in 2003. Although it was well written, and the delivery was good, the deep emotional impression was missing. The impact of the lesson was five years old. I believe the audience picked up on that missing emotion.
Living in a world with so much change, it shouldnโt be too hard to find a subject that has a strong impact on you. Ensure that each time you stand up toย speak, you are invested emotionally in your presentation. More than anything else you do on the platform, the heart of your speech is what your audience will remember.
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